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How To Talk To Children About War: Indian Mental Health Experts On Navigating The Iran-US-Israel Crisis

Dr. Sujatha Thyagarajan Lead & HOD - Pediatric Intensive Care and Pediatric Emergency, Aster Whitefield Hospital   Constant exposure to global conflict news, such as tensions involving Iran, Israel and the United States, can affect children's emotional wellbeing

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Dr. Sujatha Thyagarajan Lead & HOD – Pediatric Intensive Care and Pediatric Emergency, Aster Whitefield Hospital

 

Constant exposure to global conflict news, such as tensions involving Iran,
Israel and the United States, can affect children's emotional wellbeing even
in India.

The ongoing tensions involving Iran, Israel and the United States have
dominated global news cycles in recent weeks. Although the conflict is
geographically distant from India, today's always-connected digital world
means that children are frequently exposed to war-related news through
television, social media, school discussions and conversations among
adults. Psychologists warn that repeated exposure to distressing news
images and discussions about conflict can influence children's emotional
health. Younger children may feel confused or frightened, while
adolescents may experience anxiety, anger or a sense of helplessness.
According to the World Health Organization, exposure to traumatic or
violent content, especially without proper explanation, can increase stress
responses in children and adolescents.

For parents, the challenge lies in addressing these global events honestly
while protecting their children's sense of safety. Experts say avoiding the
topic entirely may not work, because children often sense when something
serious is happening around them.

Indian paediatric and mental health specialists say that thoughtful
conversations, reassurance and responsible media exposure can help
children understand global conflicts without becoming overwhelmed. Here's
how parents can navigate these difficult discussions.
Children Process Conflict Differently
Children's reactions to war-related news can vary widely depending on
their age, personality and what they hear from adults around them. Dr.

Sujatha Thyagarajan, Lead and Head of Pediatric Intensive Care and
Pediatric Emergency at Aster Women & Children Hospital, Whitefield,
Bengaluru, explains that children's emotional responses can take many
forms. "Children may have variable emotions and responses about the war

or traumatic events, in general. Emotions may vary based on age, the
narratives of adult conversations, the graphic contents visualised in media
and could be in the form of anxiety, curiosity, fear and sleep disturbances,"
she says.
She also notes that children may begin consuming more news if adults
around them constantly follow updates. "They may get hooked on to the
media based on the adults in the household," she adds. According to the
UNICEF, children exposed to distressing news may experience emotional
reactions such as fear, sadness or confusion. In younger children, stress
may manifest through clinginess or sleep problems, while teenagers may
show irritability or withdrawal.

Also Read: Conflict Zones And Mental Health: Hidden Wounds Of Iran,
Ukraine, Gaza Crises
Start With What Children Already Know
Mental health experts say that the first step is to understand what a child
has already heard. Dr. Naveen Kumar Dhagudu, Senior Consultant
Psychiatrist at Yashoda Hospitals, Hyderabad, advises parents to
initiate calm conversations rather than avoid the topic altogether. "Parents
should check in with their children and create space for calm, age
appropriate discussions. Many adults assume that avoiding difficult topics
protects children. In reality, children often sense that something serious is
happening," he says.

Children may hear about conflicts in different regions, from Ukraine and
Gaza to Iran or Sudan, through social media or peers. Asking them what
they already know helps parents correct misinformation and understand
their emotional reactions. The American Psychological Association
recommends open dialogue as a key strategy for helping children process
distressing news. Listening first allows parents to respond to fears without
overwhelming children with unnecessary information.

Share Facts, But Avoid Graphic Details
When discussing global conflicts, experts recommend providing simple and
honest explanations without exposing children to disturbing details. Dr.
Dhagudu explains that younger children only need a basic understanding of
the situation. "Younger children may only need to understand that
sometimes countries disagree and conflicts happen, but many people are
working to restore peace," he says.

Older children, especially teenagers, may have deeper questions after
encountering news reports online. In such cases, honest answers can help
build trust while reducing confusion. Research supported by the U.S.
National Institutes of Health shows that clear, developmentally appropriate
communication helps children cope better with stressful information.

Limit Exposure To Distressing News
Constant exposure to news updates can intensify anxiety in children. Dr.
Thyagarajan recommends limiting access to graphic content. "Limitation to
graphic contents, mindful adult conversations and timely reassurance as
well as seeking professional help as required will go a long way in
navigating conversations with children about traumatic events," she says.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) also advises
parents to monitor media consumption during stressful events, as repeated
viewing of distressing content can amplify emotional distress. Parents can
encourage children to focus on school activities, hobbies and outdoor play
rather than continuous news consumption.

Watch For Signs Of Stress
Children often express emotional distress through physical or behavioural
changes.
Dr. Dhagudu says parents should be alert to symptoms such as:
 Sleep disturbances
 Headaches or stomach aches
 Increased irritability
 Withdrawal from family or friends
 Clinginess in younger children
"In such situations, reassurance and supportive routines can help restore a
sense of security," he explains. Maintaining predictable daily routines, such
as regular meals, study time and bedtime, can help children feel safe
during uncertain times.

Also Read: Iran Says 25 Hospitals Hit After US-Israeli Strikes, Over 1,200
Dead, WHO Warns Of "Grave Public Health Threats"
Use The Conversation To Build Empathy
Experts also emphasise that discussions about global conflicts can become
opportunities to teach compassion. Instead of portraying any nation or

group as inherently "bad", parents can highlight the humanitarian
perspective, focusing on civilians affected by war and the work of relief
organisations helping those in crisis. Such conversations can encourage
children to think critically about global issues while reinforcing values like
empathy and kindness.

In an era where global events unfold instantly across screens, children are
inevitably exposed to news about wars and geopolitical tensions, even
those far from home. While such exposure can trigger anxiety or confusion,
experts say supportive conversations within families can make a powerful
difference. By listening patiently, offering age-appropriate explanations,
limiting distressing media exposure and maintaining reassuring routines,
parents can help children understand world events without feeling
overwhelmed.

Ultimately, children take emotional cues from the adults around them.
When parents remain calm, honest and empathetic, they help build
resilience, allowing children to navigate difficult global realities with
confidence and emotional security.

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